If you're 55 or older, a reverse mortgage might be a powerful retirement tool — or a costly misstep.
Our guide lays it all out with real retiree experiences, independent research, and a clear explanation of how reverse mortgages actually work.
Understand exactly how a reverse mortgage works, without sales pressure or scare tactics.
Learn what can go wrong, what protections exist, and how to spot red flags before it’s too late.
See examples of how some homeowners have used it to improve their financial situation.
Learn the clear situations where a reverse mortgage may do more harm than good.
Every claim is backed by research from HUD, CFPB, AARP, and independent studies so you can trust what you’re reading.
This book doesn’t sell or persuade. It gives you the facts so you can choose with confidence.
“I always thought reverse mortgages were a scam. This book didn’t sell me. It just gave me the facts. I finally feel like I understand what’s really at stake.” — Eleanor M., 72
“Clear, calm, and exactly what I needed. I’ve seen so many scary headlines, but this book helped me think through it logically, not emotionally.” — Janet L., 75
“After reading this, I didn’t jump into a loan. I had a real conversation with my kids and my advisor. I feel way more confident about my options now.” — Ron S., 68
“My lender gave me the rosy version. This book filled in the blanks and showed me what to watch out for. Very helpful.” — George K., 70
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by negative headlines or warnings from friends, this chapter explores how to separate inherited fears from actual risks.
Chapter 1
When online research only leads to more confusion, this chapter offers a simple framework for making sense of the noise.
Chapter 2
Some advisors oppose reverse mortgages. Others have changed their views. This chapter looks at why professional opinions have shifted and what it means for you.
Chapter 3
If you’re thinking about delaying Social Security but need income now, this chapter explores different ways people fill that gap.
Chapter 4
When mortgage payments are causing monthly stress, this chapter shows what options homeowners have explored to find relief.
Chapter 5
For those who want to stay in their homes but need funds for safety upgrades or in-home care, this chapter explores possible paths forward.
Chapter 6
If moving closer to family or downsizing feels out of reach financially, this chapter walks through creative ways others have tackled that challenge.
Chapter 7
Many borrowers worry about what they might be missing. This chapter breaks down what it really takes to stay in good standing with a reverse mortgage.
Chapter 8
If family reactions or legacy concerns are weighing on you, this chapter explores how others have balanced emotional and financial priorities.
Chapter 9
With so many bad actors in the space, this chapter gives you tools to recognize who’s credible and who isn’t.
Chapter 10
This chapter explains what to expect from the required reverse mortgage counseling, helping reduce nerves and uncertainty.
Chapter 11
A reflection tool to help you organize your thoughts, whether you're just getting started or ready to explore your options in depth.
Chapter 12
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